So it's the end of May?

How is it the end of May already? I mean seriously, I was stuck in April for the longest time it seemed like it would never end. Between car stuff & emotional healing from my loss, April was *THE* longest month.
But I'm kind of glad May is already almost over. I feel like getting through the last couple weeks was kind of like climbing a small mountain, because I was tested. Tested emotionally, tested physically, heck even fiscally.

Emotionally. 
There were a few things that happened in the last couple weeks, that could have had a detrimental effect on my life, but I choose not to let it effect me. I let it bounce of my armor that I now have on, and almost laughed at it.
In my previous post I mentioned my brother graduated, and that meant gathering of family. It really only turned out to be my mom, dad and his gf and myself. The rain delay went into effect so the graduation actually happened the day before it was scheduled, so a lot of my family that now live in the south couldn't make it.
My Dad and I do not have much of a relationship that he fails to understand why. Maybe he's claiming temporary insanity when he says some of things he says to me? Who knows...
Recapping what he said to me over Christmas, "God doesn't want me to have babies, must be the reason why your so old and have no kids yet" "I'll end up with a retard baby"  "I'll end up with 8 babies and lose like that crazy lady my house b/c clearly I cant afford 8 babies" "Why would you want to bring a baby into this awful world that's going to hell"  "oh your just a liberal republican."    ~ just wanted to add that one in for fun.
And I am not kidding. So when he said some things to me AT  my brothers graduation, in front of crowds of people, while we're trying to find my brother in the chaotic mess, I just had to laugh it off.
I had told my dad that I was pregnant on his birthday. Even though he said some hainess things to me, I thought he would have enjoyed knowing that there was going to finally be a grandchild. You know what he said to me after I said "Dad! Happy Birthday! Your going to be a Granddad!"  He said to me, in his most sarcastic voice ever.. "Oh, so the hand of God touched you?"  Wtf?
Luckily I was just on my break from my 2nd job, so I could only talk for a couple minuets, so I quickly got off the phone and tried to not cry.
When I miscarried, I didn't tell him. Long story short I know that my aunt told him b/c my Grammy even knew.
I don't know that I feel bad about that because I'm just a little bit angry at him anyways.
So at graduation he walks up to me (after not seeing me since Christmas Eve), gives me a sarcastic half smile and says  "So hows your physical condition?"    ........... um, excuse me what? my 'physical condition?' I said, what's that supposed to mean?   he replies "were you even pregnant, or was it a false positive?".........................     *mind blown*  I was STUNNED!!! How in the world can you even say that to your daughter, right there in the middle of the crowd at your sons graduation...  ? How does that even enter your mind?  As I'm writing this, I'm still shaking my head. I just look at him and say, "yes dad, I was really pregnant...."  and ended the conversation there.  I turned around to look for my brother, and my dad and his gf quietly left. So when I turned back around they were gone. No "see you laters, byes" nothing.  He didn't even invite me to the dinner he had for my brother, or breakfast before he left. He didn't include me at all. So, that's kind of it for me. I don't have it in me to let this effect me anymore. I used to. I used want to be that "daddy's little girl." But not anymore. I am not a replica of that person. Nor will I ever be. He has taught me what NOT be like as a parent.
I could have let that ruin my weekend and cried all the way home. But I didn't. There is no room for negativity in my life. I wont have it. Armour is on. I'm ready to fight for whats mine.

But wait....there's more!
Switching gears now. In Feb I was in a car accident right? Then all hell ensued for MONTHS afterwards, then of course the miscarriage just 20 days afterwards. But it all started with a jerkface that wasn't paying attention, and destroyed my car. It all started in that moment.
We live in a small town, so I knew that I'd run into this guy at some point. I work at the only grocery store in town, and it finally happened. He came through my check out line. When I looked at him... this feeling washed over me. It almost made me sick. And then I realized, "I think that's him...." and when he handed me his store savings card, there it was... his name. It was him. I must have had a look on my face because he, then got this look in his face like "I know her from somewhere..." and he figured it out by the end of the transaction. He didn't end up saying anything to be, but quietly putting his groceries in his cart and left.
I had thought about this moment for so long, what would I do, what would I say? Would I even say anything?  Here's a little tidbit.. I was bored at work one day and I googled his name. Turns out he's a rapist and is a tier 3 sex offender registrant, meaning he has to check in with state police every three months...AND he lives just down the way from me (maybe 3 minuets). So I had to think, do I make it clear to never come around me again? (i.e AVOID my line at the g-store) or do I not poke the bear and have him case my house (he knows my address from the police report) and have something happen?   I choose in that moment not to say anything. But if he does come through my line again, he's doing so blatantly, and I will then tell him to -please- try and not come through my line.

Again, I could have crumbled after seeing him. I was shaking and had to walk away from my register for a moment. Seeing him represented everything I had just gone through.  But I had my Armour on and recovered quickly.  It just so happened, three people later came through my line and bought pregnancy tests. It was a one-two punch kind of day for me.

Physically.
I have been slowly but surely working on my fit-naaaaasss.   Its been a challenge to really find the time to work out/run when I'm working 65+ hours a week. But the nights I'm not working my 2nd job I have been consistently active. Since 'being pregnant' I've lost a little over 15 pounds and have kept it off. But I'm at a stand still. The scale isn't budging. I'll admit, my eating habits are much to be improved on. So that's my next "phase" is really working on the diet. It's going to be a challenge b/c I usually need something quick and easy. And usually that means mac n'cheese. I know your going to say "meal prep" but I'm not home long enough to do that. Or awake long enough. So I'll have to figure that one out. I'm going to start this new diet thing after my period that is supposed to be arriving any day now.

And after its over, we'll be trying for a baby again. I feel completely ready now. And I'm excited that we're trying again. But I also don't want to get ahead of myself. I'm in such a good place to where I'm still focusing on one step at a time, so we'll do our thang this time around, and if it works great. And if not, there's next cycle. I'm slowly building up my mental capacity to handle the commitment I have with staying active, now adding on smarter eating.. on top of that starting to track everything again on getting pregnant. Even if we go all the way to September and we're starting treatments, if just give me more time to sharpen my mind, get my body "babyfit" as I like to call it.
I keep picturing myself in maternity sweaters over the winter, and how long and gorgeous my hair will be. How I wont have to worry about the stupid tuck in your shirt rule at work will be cause there wont be any tucking with with a baby belly. So I'm mentally there and ready. I'm ready for whatever happens.

Fiscally. 
Yea... there's that money thing again. DH & I are finalizing the projects and budgets on our house. I've agreed to help pay for a new front door with side lights (the windows beside the door). So I had to rearrange some things in my personal budget to cover it and hope that I make enough in my 2nd income to cover it all. Now that we've made the decision to start again, just going off the fact that I could get pregnant the first time, that means will only have 8/9/10ish months to finish everything. So its going to be really tight on the wallet. That will also help my mocha latte addiction. I not only need to give up caffeine, but turns out, I can't afford the caffeine! win win!

So that's the May round up. Not much happening this weekend for Memorial day. Working... but I will try to work on my gardens. Maybe even do a before & after photo for you.
I am however very much looking forward to June. It marks DH & I 6 year anniversary <3  AND!!! My 4th, 29th birthday :)   And hopefully pregnant.

Money Money Money Money....MON-EY!

That's a song by the way, at least I'm pretty sure b/c I keep singing it in my head.
Its always about the money.   I just finished my budget for the rest of the year. And now I'm depressed. ha! Having a 2nd job is a big time bummer, but its definitely helping with... you guessed it.... money!  
I'm at a point where I don't know if we'll have to do any treatments yet, so I'm realizing that I have to start saving up for expenses for towards the end of this year. Treatments would essentially start in Sept and go all the way until we have a baby (or not). B/c of the mess I was in the last couple of months, I've had use my flex spending.. so that's quickly dwindling.
Meanwhile, we're still not done projects on our house. DH is taking care of that, leaving me to worry about the bills, including my shiny brand new car payment. I've been getting these small medical bills too. So annoying. Thankfully, and I consider this a miracle - my DH and I have never really fought about money. It's always a conversation. I mean sure, we've had a spat or two, but nothing we didn't get over that afternoon. I only get stressed about it when I sit and stare at the screen looking at these figures. Wondering how I'm going to do it... do I need to add more hours at the 2nd job? or maybe not buy coffee every day?  lol. I'm getting better at that.

As far as treatments and baby making... I'm kind of shocked how "ok" I am right now in waiting a few months before trying again, and waiting to do treatments. I can remember crying b/c my regular endocrinologist told me that I have to wait 9 weeks till my thyroid leveled out. But I'm here... in the "now"... and I'm completely ok with that. Though I am starting to stress about my weight. Making a change to the diet is more harder than it used to be. I've got the working out thing -down- so now its onto getting that diet thing.... down. For the last couple days I've been addicted to chips & dip. Sour cream and onion chips with sour cream and onion dip. Ew? noooo way. I'm actually considering buying some on my way home to eat before going to job #2 tonight. Yep... I'ma do it.

So anyways.. what else. I'm so boring now.
I'm kind of getting excited for my trip to South Carolina. My lil'bro is graduating from Coastal Carolina, so we'll be in Myrtle Beach. I'm driving by myself, meeting my mom and family down there. I'm a little nervous to drive by myself only b/c I've had a bad experience making the drive before (DH and I were long distance for almost 2 years, I was in SC and he was in MD, so I would make this drive about once every other month - - one time I had a homeless or drifter bother me for a ride and wouldn't leave me a long, kept hanging around my car as if she was going to jump in my car last min or waiting for me to leave my car to steel it. weirded me out for sure). But at the same time, it will be nice to have some alone time before going into an awkward weekend. See, my parents are divorced and it did not end very well. Any my dad is going to be there, I think alone and staying at the same hotel. That means I'll have to hang out with him. We don't have the best relationship, or really any relationship (i.e. see previous post about Christmas). It will all be interesting. Then I'll drive home alone, and decompress from the weekend.
I'll most likely work every single day and night so I don't lose any hours. But.. I have to remember, I rely on that extra paycheck.

I guess really that's it... Until next time my friends!

A New Normal

>deep breath< 

Hey there. So, I've started this post over three times, lets see if this one will make the cut. It's a little boring, and nice and short update.

I've been feeling pretty good. Its been about 2 months since I miscarried and 3 months since my car accident. Life has finally calmed down enough to achieve a new normalcy.

After a lot of back + forth from the car insurance people, I finally got a settlement. I wasn't entirely happy about it, but it wasn't worth pursing and dragging it out anymore than it already had been. So with that I did end up getting a new car. A 4 door civic. I was nervous about the size. Even though this pregnancy didn't work out, I do plan on having a kid or two. And I know from experience that honda's last forever, so that's something I take into consideration when buying a car. I had my heart set on another CRV, but the payments would have been a strain. When the salesmen was pulling the car around I saw a women get out of her 4 door civic and get a car seat out. So I stopped her at the door and asked if it was realistic to have a smaller car with a family, she said "we love it!." So that made me feel a little bit better with going with the civic, and I love it too.

After 6 weeks of waiting, my period finally started. I was sooo excited to see it come along, and without any drugs. But then came the AWFUL cramps. I was couch ridden for most of the 1st day. It was a short 2 day cycle. The doctor said that this one didn't count b/c I wasn't yet in the negative with the HCG. So, now I wait for the 2nd cycle to show up which I'm hoping it will be next week so says my tracking app. We'll wait the next two cycles out and then we can begin to try again. I'm hoping that I'll be a metformin statistic again with just trying on our own for 2/3 cycles. Then we'll dive right into treatments in September if it hasn't happened yet.
I'm kind of scared/nervous/excited to start trying again. I'm trying to keep my DH off me until I know for sure that I'm out of that ovulation window. But I'm really trying to just focus on one step at a time. Right now, its about getting my head back in the game. Focusing on me for the next two months. Working out has been soooo good. I'm doing this thing called Soldierfit, where its classes like a bootcamp, but the atmosphere is amazing. Everyone is so nice and encouraging. I'm doing personal training every other week with a 100% certified cutie pie. And I've fall'n back in love with running again. Its kind of challenging b/c I work 65 hours a week, so whenever I have the nights off, I'm doing something active. I'm not even worried about my weight (yet) just b/c my hormones have been so all over the place. But as of this week I'm DONE with doctors. Even done with the dentist for 6 more months. Even just that is refreshing. My tank was running on low for the last 2/3 months. And I'm actually ok with waiting a few cycles before trying again. I'm really enjoying this time of being normal. I might even get to accrue some comp time at my full time job! My sick time has dwindled down to just 20 hours (from 70) and my vacation is down to 60 hours (from 70+).. 

So that's really kind of it for now. I welcome this new normal, bring on the day!

Over it?

Ugh. I can't seem to catch a break. One day I think I'm ok, I'm laughing, smiling, joking. The next day I'm so sad. 
I'm kind of in limbo at the current moment. I feel like I'm ready to be over this sadness and loss, but my surrounds are not letting me.
Now... I know its only been 2 weeks, but it feels like its been longer. My mind has really gone more towards looking at this loss as a scientific happening than an emotional one.
I'll explain...
So, the way I was supposed to get pregnant was through science. Hypothesis and all. If I take these med's, Then I'll get pregnant. It was about steps, procedures, monitoring. There was nothing emotional about it. I mean yes... the effects can be an emotional roller coaster for sure, but the plan of getting pregnant itself, is about facts...results... 
So what happened was my body telling me that this was not going to be a good pregnancy, the science of my body knew better than my heart. And that's where my mind is right now.

But my surroundings are telling me otherwise. I'm constantly being reminded of what would have been.
Every week I'm having to go get my blood tested (at the same office where I saw no heartbeat) to watch my hcg go back down, so every week I'm reminded that I'm not pregnant anymore and that I cant even try until I get through the next two cycles.
I had a follow up with the doctor who did my DNC two weeks ago today and I think that's whats triggered my emotions this morning. Seeing him was a reminder of how awful that procedure was and how I felt that day.
I'm still getting "that look" from people at the office and having to convince them that I'm ok. I feel like I'm so behind at my task's at job#1 because from the accident and the loss I've had to take a lot of time off work (I hold myself up to a very high standard) so it feels like I'm under performing. Even though I know that my boss is not holding anything against me.
I still don't have a new car and I feel like this loss is all tied up within my car accident. I spoke with Geico yesterday and she JUST reached out to all medical places this past Friday.. so it will be another 2/3 weeks before that is over.
I've had a migraine for the past three days, I think its b/c of the hormones crashing so its unavoidable. But if it continues another day or so, I'll be back at the doctors to ask, what the heck I can do about this pain.
I mean, if its not one thing - its another. I can't seem to catch a break. I seriously need a vacation from my body. How does that work? I'm trying really hard to get back to normal. But then something happens where I'm sad again. Or that I'm having to jump through another hurdle health wise, or car insurance wise, or work wise.
I'm waiting for the day that its 70 degrees out, no clouds in the sky to stay home from work and just sit on my back deck and soak up the sun. No noise but the birds chirping. No interruptions from the husband. Just me and the sun. It would be better if I lived near a beach - but I don't!

I'm hanging on, hanging in there. Staring at the edge of the cliff. I just need to get through the next month or so.. 

So back to steps. I'll meet with my RE next week to kind of see where we're at. Get focused on the plan. I'm working my way back up to max dosage of Metformin (2,000 mg) and I'm taking pre-natles again. I'll see my regular endocrinologist for my thyroid. Hoping my thyroid levels stay where they are.
I'm going to focus on my 5k training and do this boot camp thing called Soldierfit once a week to start.
I'm going to be fine. I need to learn to let go and let God. I keep staring at this scripture that I printed out and have it on my desk:
"Don't worry about anything, instead pray about everything. Tell God your needs and don't forget to thank him for answers. If you do this you will experience Gods peace, which is far more wonderful than the human mind can understand. His peace will keep your thoughts and your hearts quiet and at rest as you trust in Christ Jesus." Philippians 6-7.

Statistics

I'm not really sure how to start this one.......  This ended up being a long one.. so go get a coffee or a snack...


If you've read my previous post's, my story has went from excited about getting the green light to officially start treatments from my regular endocrinologist (thyroid issues), and waiting for my cycle to start so that I could order the med's from my RE/Nurse to start treatments for my cycle in Feb. To..... never getting my cycle because I was already pregnant.   I had attributed this pregnancy to being on metformin (2,000 mg) and having the polyp removed in Nov. When I saw those two lines I was completely dumbfounded and in shock. I really wasnt sure how to feel. Statistics show, that patience with PCOS being on metform have a 6% chance of conceiving with just metformin. I was one of the 6%.
I found out I was pregnant on a Friday, and was in a serious car accident the following Monday. My car was totaled. Statistics show, that 77% of the time that a car accident can happen less than 10 miles from your home. Mine was right across the street from my house going to my 2nd job. I was stopped waiting for traffic to make a left hand turn into the parking lot. The car I was waiting on just passed, and the nano-second I took my foot off the breaks - - - BOOM - - - I was slammed, so hard that my car made a slight left turn (b/c my wheel was already turning), jumped the curb and ended in the ditch.

 

 

I ended up going to the hospital, and explaining that I was 4 1/2 weeks pregnant. But because it was so early, there wasn't much the doctors could do, except wait. I waited two weeks until my 6w date to get a sonogram. I'm not sure what the stats are for this, but there was a heartbeat. And that was then when I finally caved in and fell in love with this little being inside me growing. I started to tell everyone I was pregnant. I had waited 11 years to tell people, and just survived a car accident so I had no issues telling the world, plus working at a grocrey store part time meant I couldnt get carts from the parking lot :). The 6w sonogram apointment was such an amazing experience, to see that little flicker on the screen. That day I downloaded three different apps and started to track the growth. We told our in laws, and parents that we were finally pregnant. Started to plan out the months to come, plan out the nursery and other house projects that needed to get done before month 9.

 

Then came our 8w appointment. It was a Friday. Another Friday....          the goal this time was to see growth. I was happy to see the heartbeat after the accident, but now I wanted to see that the baby has grown. After this appointment I was going to call the car insurance back [Geico] (from the guy who hit me) and close out the medical claim and start follow up with a settlement amount. Before the doctor came in I had a feeling of uneasiness and I can remember asking my husband "what happens if we lose this baby." He said to me "we try again." 

You know how it is, your mind is set on getting each appointment done and 'in the clear,' before you can really start to be happy. Really, the only symptoms I was having was that I was really tired all the time, and my boobs really hurt, other than that I felt nothing. I let this get to me on more than one occasion, but always came back to "every pregnancy is different."

 

So the doctor came in, with a smile on his face. I was ready to see my baby raspberry.

 

 

As soon as I looked at the screen I knew there was something wrong. I stopped breathing. I grabbed the little monitor and kept staring at the screen searching and saw there was no flicker. The Doctor or nurse didn't say a word as they took a couple of pictures. The doctor's mouth was moving and the only thing I heard was what I already knew to be true... there was no heartbeat. The baby was gone. I still couldn't breath, but immediately started crying so hard that there was no sounds coming out of me. The doctor and nurse quickly left the room so that we could regain our composure. I was crying so hard while getting dressed. I kept saying "shit" over and over again.. like shit.. I JUST told everyone. We JUST told our parents.. shit!! Now I have to go back and tell everyone that I'm not pregnant anymore SHIT SHIT SHIT!. We were going to "go public"  (tell facebook) on Saturday once we knew where we stood with this appointment. Just a few weeks away from the 12 week mark. I was so close. SHIT!

 

We briefly met with the Doctor in a different room. He assured me that it was not my fault. I didn't eat anything wrong, I didn't do anything wrong. It was just one of those things. And I know this. This is something I had my mind prepared for. Statistics show, that 1 out of 5 pregnancy's end in miscarriage. I was one of those 5.

That Friday was really really tough to get through. I called off from work and was just going through the motions for that day. I was so grateful for my husband being there. My fertility clinic got me an apt with an OB later that Friday who would be doing an DNC on Monday.... another Monday...   

When I finally made it home, I crashed in bed and slept and cried the rest of the day. I had a shift to work at the grocery store Friday night, and I was stupid enough to actually show up. My purpose for working that night was to tell the manager that I couldn't work on Monday b/c I had to have a DNC and that I had the close shift and didn't want to put my manager in a place where they didn't have anyone to cover me. And I guess I was looking for a distraction. Being a cashier, your forced to be pleasant with customers. It was rough to get through those 5 hours. I still cried.. and had to tell some customers "my eyes are just dry..."   "allergies....."  

 

That Saturday I was off from job #2, but my husband and I had errands to run. I had to run out and get prescriptions to take after the DNC. While we were getting lunch my RE called me and told me how sorry she was. I was really impressed that she took the time out of day on the weekend to call me. She reassured me that this happens, but its ok to be sad. It's a loss. But she wanted me to know she was there to fight with me. Ready for what comes next. She'll be there. For lunch I can remember being at panera. I looked over to my right once we sat down and saw a group of bikers and started to listen in on their conversation. They were having a bible study. Then I look over to my left and a family was praying over thier meal. I was imediatly comforted and felt Gods presance all around me like a hug. I felt good. I felt ok.

Sunday I worked the day shift. Another ruff day. I had some tears when someone came through my line with blueberry's or raspberries. Or when someone bought baby food... I just kept looking down and threw everything in a bag.

 

So Monday rolled around, and I had to be at the hospital in the morning, my procedure was supposed to be at 11:20. I just wanted this to be over with. Everyone knew what I was there for, but a couple of the nurses asked me repeatedly.. "do you know what your hear for, what are you here for, we need to make sure you understand what your having done today.."  um.. yes... please stop asking me to repeat this awfulness. And I had to keep explaining that I was not diabetic.. that I was taking metformin b/c I had PCOS and it helped me get pregnant. The one nurse didn't believe me and had me take a blood test anyways.

There ended up being 2 emergency surgeries, so I didn't end up having my procedure done till almost 1:00. I was in the pre-opp room for almost 4 hours... just waiting... and so hungry... 

When they begun to wheel me into the operating room, I just started to cry again. It's really over after this...  She or he, what would have been, will really be gone. And I'm left with nothing.

As soon as I laid on the table, I was out. Woke up in the recovery room in a lot of pain but glad it was over. Made our way home, and again, slept the rest of the day.

 

I could have planned better, but I ended up calling off work on Tuesday too. I just wasn't ready to be back at work yet. To face people. But Tuesday was a good day. I felt ok. And I could feel emotionally I was getting back to being me. Every doctor I came into contact with since that Friday was so encouraging, nice and understanding. They all had their own personal stories to tell me.

I decided that I couldn't let this affect me so much anymore. I began to look at it as more scientific than emotional. It happened. It's over. I don't see the sense in it laying on the couch crying every day, or feeling sorry for myself, wondering what it was (boy vs. girl) or every Friday remembering that this 'would have been week 9, week 10..." There's nothing I could do about it, drowning in the pain will only stress me out and effect my health. I know and have already faced some minor stings from the past couple weeks. And I know that there will be times in the future where I'll have a tear or have some sadness. But I cant let that effect my future.

 

When I returned back to work on Wednesday, there was a card and everyone had singed it. Of course that made me cry. A few people came by my office and hugged me. A lot of people just didn't know what to say. And that's ok.  I didn't want people to keep saying "I'm sorry." Because I didn't want to keep saying "it's ok." Really because its not ok. But again, there isn't anything anyone can do about it. It just "is." 

Thursday ended up being a snow day and work was canceled. I was grateful to have off that day. Then Friday was a delayed opening.

 

Life moves on. People going through my line at the grocery store don't know what happened, so I have to keep saying "I'm pretty good" when they asked me how I'm doing. I have deadlines approaching at my full time job.

 

So now.... we're in the 2nd week of March. I just closed all claims with both car insurance people. My insurance paid me for my days/hours missed b/c of the accident. I just sent everything over to Geico. Now.... I wait. Wait to see what Geico will offer me for a settlement. This will determine how much of a down payment I will have and what kind of car I can afford. I tried to really stress to the adjuster, that this accident may have not been a directly link to the loss, but that is a strong coincident that I had an accident and just 3 weeks later lose a baby. That I was not a normal person who was pregnant. That I was a fertility patient. that a normal person probably wouldn't get a sonogram till 8 weeks. And if I had waited that long, I would have probably directly linked the accident to the loss.

Its

 

As far as what the future holds...   I'm now waiting for my body to figure out that I'm not pregnant anymore and for a period to show up. Then I wait for the second period. The 3rd cycle is when I can safely start to try again. I hope that statistics are on my side again and that Metformin is all it takes. But my mind is ready for the fight again. I'm ready for the fight.

I've also signed up for a 5k and will be focusing on the training, and weightloss. Improving my diet so that it wont be so much of a change when I do get pregnant again.

I'm going to keep reading my pregnancy books, so that I'm not freaked out by not knowing anything about being pregnant. I'm going to be ready this time.

 

In the mean time, a few follow up doctor's appointments. And hopefully a new car. Every day gets better and better. I'm not sad anymore around fruit or baby clothes or even babies. I'm more hopeful and waiting for May to show up so that I can be pregnant again. But this time, not a single word until week 12. And really.. only those who need to know. I'm not sure that I ever be 100% back to normal, but when my baby is finally in my arms.. it will be close.

 

That's kind of it for right now. Just like I didn't know how to start this point, I'm not sure how to finish it.

Until next time!